Showing posts with label Paul Pilarcik. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Paul Pilarcik. Show all posts

Sunday, June 17, 2012

Dateline ~ JUNE 17th . . . NO BUSINESS LIKE SHOW BUSINESS

The 17th of June ~ 


The Battle of Bunker Hill
The Watergate Break-In thrill
OJ Simpson's unglorified white Ford Bronco ride
  
~ And this year, once again,
my Birthday and Father's Day side by side by side.



In childhood days, Mom's mastery with aqua icing put a ripple right smack dab down the middle of our cake. Chocolate cake, buttercream white, piles of happy lovin' laughin' ~ sharing day and life with my hero, my Dad ~ THE ultimate delight.

My Dad is why 
my Spirit is undauntable.

My Dad is why
 I believe in believers,

and that those whose lives we touch or reach or jostle with jazz are the true enrichments of 
our Life's greater show.


Dad's my heaven on earth today.
We'll share a cup of coffee, together, some way.

And having my cake and eating it too?
Same cake, same aqua ripple ~ an act of love of the love o'my life . . . He knows ~ that what matters in the soul of how you got to be who/how you are should always matter.


Happy Celebrations to Dads
 and fellow Gemini charmers 


Such Thanks to all of you . . . *AT THE BIJOU*
as our interactions shine through and true.

~ Absolutely*BirthdayKate,
~ sharing Father's Day . . . once again
with my Dad, the star in my firmaments,
knowing great shows of Life always go on

( Cue music ~ Hit it Mr Berlin )



I love you Dad.

Thanks . . . for letting me know 
people who love people are the
luckiest people in this here world.

~ Absolutely*Kate


Oh, you did so good Kid ----



Sunday, May 13, 2012

CHARLIE + MABEL ~ By Absolutely*Kate for a romantic mother


I wrote this for my loving and romantic mother several months after she lost her fella and I lost my father.  Less than two months later, I said farewell to her for the last time as well.

They're together again  . . . loving up where the stars know greater lights, 
but I thought I'd rerun it for her Mother's Day,
'cause givin' your Mom pleasure is such a darn good thing.

Here goes ~   

 CHARLIE 
  +  
MABEL


By ~ Absolutely*Kate


~~~~~~~~~~
Act One
~~~~~~~~~~


Charlie was a sailor when his ship came in. He whistled low his favorite tunes. He heaped high his fondest hopes, back and forth, forth and back on the  first dogwatch from 4 to 6 pm when land was sited. It had been a journey to remember, and he was on a journey to discover, a journey towards all the what nexts a man who revered life could reasonably shove into a navy blue duffle bag.

Charlie loved life, people and a real swell gal named Mabel . . . but he didn't know that yet. He didn't know Mabel yet. And Mabel thought she was in love with Tommy. Tommy however, was infatuated with his new Nash Rambler convertible and would be not at all pleased later that evening when Mabel's chocolate shake would dribble down chrome and sheen in an unfortunate A&W car hop delivery scene. As Mabel's sense and sensitivities were on a subconscious quest for a man of gumption who loved life to join up with as a forever loving wife, back home 'round about midnight, she would pick up a pen and cross Tommy and his materialism grumbles clean outtasite off her Mr Wonderful list.

But back to fathoming Charlie. Peering from the edge of the pier into a variegated dusk strata settling the aura of the western horizon, he passed his hand o'er dark waves upon waves of thick black hair, swiveling tall torso to advantage his best vantage back at the USS Constant. Charlie's instincts knew when it mattered to hold moment to memory, indelible as Dale Carnegie would someday reinforce the technique in him . . . but not yet. The trusty barnacled ship had been this first mate's fate for a pack of years, the formative ones, the ones that made a lanky boy from a small city a bigger man of his own reckoning. Charlie's inner barometer attuned genuine readings of sensational smiles and the solid gaze knowing eyes bespoke. The insight of his sight saw the best within ordinary folk. Even when they didn't see it, Charlie brought it out of them the more, from purposeful or chance encounters.

Mabel would be a chance encounter, that look-up-eyes-lock sparkanddazzle across a dance floor, but we're not hearing that music play . . . yet. A week or so of back pocket memories, while whistlin' Glenn Miller and hummin' Cole Porter, would transcend both their busy lives until a non-committal stroll on a lazy Sunday afternoon past a secluded portion of Perry Beach would open Charlie's wandering eyes to wonders smack dab before him. We haven't made it there yet either. Besides, Mabel had months to go, dating Roger next, a cultured college catch who had come a'courting. Roger was destined to become a pilot, a rich man and a happy Hawaiian home owner. Some destiny's distances are too far to travel for a close-to-home Midwest gal like Mabel, so, dreamer that she was, she'd still wave off Roger's hankerings with her best embroidered hanky, and they'd slowly part fast friends.


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Charlie turned from his reverie at sea to see how the night might beckon. Wilma Jean, a local siren who had taken an immediate liking to the profile she'd seen touseling, decided to beckon. With a tousel like that, there could be gobs of fun to his tussle too. A femme fatale with Look Ahead flashing signal lights to her peepers was willowy Wilma Jean, if you know what I mean. The night was a bambino and time was on her side. Sorry to say, fresh lines weren't.

"Hey Sailor, new in town?"  

No missed-opportunity jerk, Charlie turned with a smirk. He caught the condition her tossed grin was in, heard the sultry giggle accompanying her wriggle and formed a contention about her intention. Oooh boy though, did Wilma Jean wriggle. It was shimmy on parade, just standing there. It was a homer in the 9th with bases loaded and DiMaggio taunting. It was how contour tight-skirted a waist and how cleavage graced why gorgeous breastsare elevated.

"Is that an opportunity in your pocket, or are you just glad to see me?"
  
Charlie chuckled. This dame was a looker alright, but some of the other qualities his journey had him yearning for, like substance and grace, talking long into the night or being on the same wavelength that silently spoke cross currents . . . just weren't all on board. But the night was a bambino, and he was hungry. "Saaaay, you know where a guy can get a good spaghetti dinner in this ol' town?"
 
Wilma Jean led Charlie to DellaRosa's. Della herself warned Charlie as she served a magnificent antipasto and the best house straw-basket chianti, about fast girls on speedy nights. "You looka like'a nice'a boy. Why you messin' wit dat one? She's a'trouble I tell you. Find yourself a nice'a girl. Ask her to be your wife. Kiss her close and dance her tight. Care and share ~ la vita bella. You'll be a better kinda happy spending all your days in a bee-yoo-ti-ful life." When Wilma Jean returned from the Ladies room, Signora Rosa slopped a little sauce on the red and white checkered table cloth and Charlie's date swore like a . . . well, like a sailor.



There were plenty of sly come-hither stares and sidling up the sizzle on the walk back downtown, but Charlie didn't find a very profound need aroused for what her ancient pitch was proceeding her to leading him to. Back at the pier, his faraway look, across dark night waters lapping against the stalwart Constant, preceeded their farewell. 
 
Alone in his lumpy bunk, but with a full belly of molto bene spaghetti, Charlie buoyed up his boyish belief in what the probabilities of the next twenty thousand tomorrows would bring a persevering man. Perhaps another port, perhaps more adventurous strolls, why, maybe even a dance hall. Yeah, that's the ticket. Contentedly he sighed, rolled on his side and turned the knobs on the wooden Philco to let the music play into his tomorrows:


 
I'm making believe 
that you're in my arms 

though you're so far away.

 
Making believe
I'm talkin' to you;
 
Wish you could hear what I say.

There's plenty more to mutter on how Mabel became available, but we wanted to get this written by the time Valentines' Day calendared up to wax eloquent. Mabel did dance her way into Charlie's heart, and never complained when he stepped on her toes. Their instinct knew they were so in sync that complaining wasn't how it goes. And many a beach knew their stroll, and the sun shined from their backyard upon their share and their care. They were so happy there, and there. Heavens, they were happy everywhere.

Alone on her plush mattress with the memory foam, the soft cotton sheets hung on the clothesline that day and the warm sky blue comforter, Mabel abled up her girlish dreams of what the propensity of the immensity of the last twenty thousand yesterdays had brought to a passionate, pleasured, laughing, loving woman. Always another home-cooked meal, cup of coffee poured, newpaper page turned, child's life shared would endear Charlie more the part of her. The best part, the heart part, that was always the easy part. Always she could feel the kiss to build their dreams on, dancing cheek to cheek, and only having eyes for him too. Yes, that's the winning ticket. Softly, she sighed, rolled on her side and turned the dial on the plastic Panasonic to let the music play over her yesterdays:




 
I'm making believe 
that you're in my arms
though you're so far away.
 
Making believe
I'm talkin' to you;
Wish you could hear what I say.
 
And here in the gloom 

of my lonely room

we're dancing like we used to do
Making believe is just another way of dreaming
so til my dreams come true 
 
I whisper goodnight, turn out the light,
and kiss my pillow 
making believe it's you.

         
 


~~~~~~~~~~


The auras of their horizons smile,

as auras and love constantly do.


Charlie + Mabel
is indelible as a moment of memory,
constant and alive in sailing its true.


(c) Valentines' Weekend, 2011
... Mother's Day weekend, 2012

Author Absolutely*Kate
for True Lovers everywhere 
~~~~~~~~~~

Bathing Beauty photo credit ~ UppityRib
Golden Hearts Entwined ~ Mamjodh 
"I'm Making Believe" song 
warbled well by Ella Fitzgerald and the Ink Spots,
Lyrics by Mack Gordon,  Music by James V. Monaco 


MABEL and her CHARLIE,
FRANNY and her PAUL ~

There comes special hunks of sparks of Life
when Love simply, thus strongly,
conquers all.



~ Happy Mother's Day
of always Loving, Mom


~ your Katie

Saturday, February 4, 2012

THE CONFIDENCE GAME ~ By Paul Pilarcik's kid . . . Kate, absolutely


THE CONFIDENCE GAME
  
~ Recollections from Paul Pilarcik's kid, Kate


"Confidence is contagious. 
  So is lack of confidence." 

Mr Lombardi looked me solid in the eye when he let that one fly by. I remember it well. I didn't hesitate. I winked back, and then went for the slant ... deep out ... deep in ... short post. It was a stop n'go and I caught what Bart's rifle arm could throw.

With only 47 seconds left to go, I knew we had to win. Winning was the only thing. It had been drummed into all of us so long, so well. There was no way in Titletown, I'd let us fail. Y'know, I felt Coach's momentum before I actually heard him. He was chargin' right along the sideline, takin' no chances any of us would drop the ball. This game was it. This game was all.


"If you can accept losing,
  you can't win."



    
I knew how fire-in-the-belly serious he was. Today, there'd be no grin. Well sure, naturally, he wanted us fired up -- 

   
"Kid, if you aren't fired with enthusiasm, you will be fired with enthusiasm."

Sheeeeesh, Coach Lombardi. What a guy. Born a Gemini in Brooklyn, he came ready-equipped to form a team and lead that team to double season wins of the first two Super Bowls ever played. Vincent Thomas Lombardi's dynamics were forces of an indomitable dual nature that began at the line of scrimmage and didn't let up til the endzone, when the final whistle blew.


"Leaders are made, they are not born. They are made by hard effort, which is the price which all of us must pay to achieve any goal that is worthwhile." 


Goals? My life sure had 'em. Back when I played for Coach, and how! Most definitely, here and now. How could it be otherwise? In '67 and '68, when we took out Kansas City, and then the Oakland Raiders -- (the team whose coach named the Bowl "Super") -- Coach Lombardi had the team focus wholeheartedly on the "W", to make legend great. No jive, just jargon ~ over and over, this was destined fate:

"If it doesn't matter who wins or loses, then why do they keep score?" 

Life's all about keeping score, making goal line stands, being an open receiver, and somedays, glorious somedays, even perfecting a sanctified Hail Mary pass. Well sure, in the super game of Life there are shifty officials, illegal procedures, botched incompletions and sometimes, when the blitz is really on, intentional grounding. That's when my hero, my Dad, who looked to Lombardi as his hero, would ask, "What are you gonna do Kid? You know you can lick anything. Just always give it your best. Always."

"It's not whether you get knocked down, it's whether you get up."

© 2012 ~ Author/Sports afficiando ~ABSOLUTELY*KATE
CREDITS ~ All quotations are Coach Vince Lombardi's or Coach Paul Pilarciik's as noted.
Iconic Lombardi photo from the Canton Football Hall of Fame
Celestial Dad Paul photo from the Pilarcik family collection



  My Dad is Paul Pilarcik. He taught me football. He taught me Lombardi. He taught me Steelers. All I had to do was sit in the living room and watch TV with him. Oh yeah, I had to be quiet too. I sure did learn a lot though. My Dad, in his own strong, quiet, humourous way, coached my life. By example, by training, by the all-out drive to reach the 'necessary line'. First and ten, do it again


And he believed THE BEST in others so fully,
that there was no choice, no option play ~
If knocked down, Confidence got you up.


THANKS DAD. 
~ Kate 


I didn't really play in a game with Coach Lombardi, but I bet if I met him, I would've listened to his fortitude gain yardage . . . and I'm sure I would've winked. Yeah, I would've. And who knows - with superb pass protection?
  
I could - go - all - the - way . . . 


But this weekend's Super Bowl plays out to the gridiron gumption between the New England Patriots and the New York Giants, not the Green Bay Packers, not even the worthy Pittsburgh Steelers. Lombardi once coached the Giants though, did you know that? Hmmm. Why, Lombardi's the kind of caliber of a man you'd think they'd name a trophy after one day. Hmm, imagine that. But can a team out-Belichick Belichick? The coach with the locker room poster from a centuries' old Chinese philosopher of war:

EVERY 
BATTLE
IS WON
BEFORE 
IT IS 
FOUGHT

{ We shall see what we shall see. }


Enjoy the weekend. Enjoy the game.
Thanks for comin' round to see "THE SHADOWS OF OUR NOIR" in stunning author shows *AT THE BIJOU* time after time and then some. They start up again the week following the Super Bowl . . . but now ~

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~ Absolutely Steeler*Kate


~ Believing in the Best that's yet to Be.





Saturday, December 31, 2011

ABSOLUTELY 2012 ~ AT THE BIJOU


“So we beat on, 
boats against the current, 
borne back ceaselessly
 into the past.”

~ Literary Hero of Absolutely*Kate, F. Scott Fitzgerald
billowing souls . . . as souls should be billowed

Therein sails
our best futures.

Cross currents,
great tidings,
fair winds,
following seas,

to you and yours
 from the best 
of what is me.


This year is dedi'kated to:
OUT OF THE PAST ~ into all our Futures ~ Mitchum & Greer

The shimmery shadows of NOIR,

The Authors who breathe life
into mere wordings,

The laughter-ever-after
when colleagues become friends,
inspiring where least-expected,

ABSOLUTELY BEST PARENTS OF THE WORLD
And naturally,
from my core and coeur,

~ My Mom and Dad,
Franny and Paul,
reunited in their celestials
. . . once again

TIME KEEPS ON SLIPPIN'  SLIPPIN' SLIPPIN' ... INTO OUR FUTURES
  ~ pic ala  EnglishExercises.com

I love you guys!

Grace o'my thanks
for how your superb collaborations and how authors-taking-authors the higher soars  AT THE BIJOU

See you in the brave and brazen New*Year with Jump*Jivin' JANUARY NOIR 
to cheer!

~ e'er your pal,
with auld lang syne ~ 
we'll take a cup o'kindness then, eh?

~ Absolutely*Kate
Believing in Believers